The Key to Successful Marketing - Relationship-Building

Come with me into a farmer's market - you're aboutregularly. There are a couple catalogs I receive that I
to get a hands-on lesson on why relationships makeenjoy looking through just for the extra snippets of
such a difference in marketing... and how to createinfo and observations.
them...Through testing you can find that sweet spot of
Look around you: Mountains of vegetables - rubyenough communications to build familiarity without
beets with the tops still on, beautiful heads of lettucebecoming overbearing.
ruffled, wavy, lime green and deep pine green. ApplesSo make it a regular thing - gain some trust with
with names like Sops of Wine, Winter Banana andyour customers just by virtue of being part of their
Westfield Seek-No-Further. Fresh bread, crustregular "neighborhood".
crackling, pulled from the oven this morning... I've got3. Build Relationships Through Giving
you salivating already...This is no time to be stingy. With tighter budgets,
But while the food is the main attraction, lookpeople are looking for freebies and bargains. But this
beyond the merchandise being sold. Look at what'sis not just something for tough economic times...
going on between the buyers and sellers. People areIn general, people feel a need to give back to
animated, talking, asking questions, smiling -someone who has been generous. Social researcher,
sometimes greeting each other with a sense ofRobert Cialdini, Ph. D. in his seminal book Influence,
familiarity, even by name.noted how consistently people gave more donations
This is one of the big reasons people enjoy going toto the Hari Krishna fundraisers who gave away free
the farmer's market. And in fact, it's the same thingflowers. Even if they didn't want a flower, they felt a
they are looking for in every purchase experience - aneed to give something in return.
relationship.So think about what you can give to your customers.
What people love about the farmer's market isAnd I'm not just talking about free samples or
meeting the people who have grown the food theytwo-for-one deals. You can still mind your budget and
are about to eat. They can look into their eyes andkeep your value-laden products fairly priced.
ask them questions about their merchandise. TheySee, people love useful information they can get for
feel comfortable - no, excited - to buy somethingfree. Perhaps it's a well-researched, informative
from someone they feel they know.e-book, a calendar, or a simple recipe. Provide some
As many market analysts have pointed out, thefree entertainment that changes their perspective -
increasing appeal of farmers markets and local foodsan inspiring or humorous story.
is not just based in ideology or a commitment toHow do you get it to them? A downloadable white
shrinking carbon footprints. It goes to a deeperpaper, good content in your newsletter or blog, an
human need - to connect. People are looking forinsert when you send your products off or an
places where commerce is not just an exchange ofinfo-frosted magalog.
goods and money - but keeps them feeling human.Give something extra to your customers and, in turn,
Sure, it's about trust - that's a big part of it. But it'sthey'll feel even more disposed to give you their
more than just trust. People like spending moneybusiness.
when they feel they're getting more than just a4. Build A Relationship By Bringing Down The Hype
thing, but purchasing into an experience or aMarketing is changing with the advent of social media.
community. They are seeking connections in theirAnd the number one shift that social media experts
purchases.like to point out is that no longer can you deceive
And while you can't show up at your customer'syour customers. Be transparent or be doomed. Like
doorstep with dirt under your fingernails and offerthe wizard of oz, the little dog of social media will
them a fresh sample with your own hands, you canswipe that curtain away and you'll be exposed to
still build something comparable with strategicmillions of accusing eyes for the charlatan you are, if
marketing.you go that route.
Here are four strategies I use regularly as a marketerBut wait, back up a minute, this really isn't that new.
and copywriter for the health market. Some of themIf you hype up your sales pitch, advertising a
are covered in my free report, "17 Healthmasterful piece of art and then your customers get
Copywriting Tips for a Tough Economy" listed below.a plain ole postcard, do you think they are going to
1. Build Trust Through Self-Revelations:buy from you again? No way.
You can build trust with your customers by tellingSure, communicate your excitement about your
them more about your company. Let them knowproduct. Highlight the benefits, but don't mislead your
what inspires you, what your mission is, and whatcustomers. Make them feel exceedingly pleased with
your expertise is.their purchase, confident that they weren't
Careful, don't turn this into a chest-pounding speechhoodwinked and eager to buy from you again and
about you. Weave it into communications that focusagain and again.
on your customers' needs, concerns and interests.In fact one of Zappos' customer-securing maxims is
And let some of your character through, even revealto underpromise and overdeliver. So sure, you want
a few weaknesses. If social marketing has taught usto entice with your marketing materials. But consider
anything, it's how much people respond to marketingbeing a little humble here and there so your
that feels like it comes from a real person.customers can experience the thrill of purchasing
2. Build Trust Through Regular Communication:something that is even better than they imagined.
Your kids' bus driver, the guy you buy the morningThink about how this will hook them on your
paper or coffee from, your colleague in the nextcompany and get them to sing your praises to
cubicle. For better or worse, these people are regulareveryone they know. Think about it...
fixtures in your life... And - unless they've given youRelationship marketing is about... relationships. Yeah,
cause to think otherwise - they slowly but surelythat's pretty evident. But determining what goes into
claim some of your trust just by being familiar toa good relationship is a little trickier. And how to
you.translate that into the wheeling and dealing world of
Make your marketing do the same thing. Find regularmarketing can be even harder.
ways to communicate with your customers. MaybeTake these four ideas, combine them with some
it's through an e-newsletter (yes, people are stillgenuine excitement about solving your customers'
opening and reading e-newsletters), maybe it'sproblems, and you've got a sweet mix for building
through your Facebook page or tweeting.some good rapport with your prospects.
Maybe it's simply that you send them a catalog